{"id":4484,"date":"2023-02-08T10:50:20","date_gmt":"2023-02-07T23:50:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogs.deakin.edu.au\/article\/?p=4484"},"modified":"2023-03-01T17:42:11","modified_gmt":"2023-03-01T06:42:11","slug":"iwd-rani-kandasamy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.deakin.edu.au\/article\/iwd-rani-kandasamy\/","title":{"rendered":"International Women&#8217;s Day: Rani Kandasamy"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em><strong>I can&#8217;t believe it took me till this campaign to look back at the journey I&#8217;ve made. All the way back to June 2019 when I escaped the &#8216;mold&#8217; of the environment I was raised in by choosing to pursue higher education abroad, in Australia. As a Trans Person of Color who is also an International Student every day there is a new barrier, but I persevered. Perseverance lead me to contribute to the Student Community across my many Student Service roles on campus so that other International Students can see me and understand the brilliance of being a Queer person of Color; that we have a presence, that we have a say, that we are just as valid, and that we are just as integral to society.&nbsp;I&#8217;d like to dedicate this piece to all my Transwomen and Ciswomen:&nbsp;So Heads Up Ladies. We sashay to the finish line at dawn.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Preferred pronouns: He\/She\/They (Any pronouns)<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"TextRun SCXW153902278 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-AU\" xml:lang=\"EN-AU\" data-contrast=\"auto\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW153902278 BCX0\">Tell us about what International Women\u2019s Day means to you?<\/span><\/span><span class=\"EOP SCXW153902278 BCX0\" data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:0,&quot;335559740&quot;:252}\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span class=\"TextRun SCXW235525485 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-GB\" xml:lang=\"EN-GB\" data-contrast=\"auto\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW235525485 BCX0\"><span class=\"TextRun SCXW141181122 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"none\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW141181122 BCX0\">I like to think that a designated day like International Women\u2019s Day is when we champion for our women at our LOUDEST. We get the chance to sit down and tell our <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun ContextualSpellingAndGrammarErrorV2Themed SCXW141181122 BCX0\">stories, and<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW141181122 BCX0\"> tell the stories of women who <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW141181122 BCX0\">don\u2019t<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW141181122 BCX0\"> have a voice, or<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW141181122 BCX0\"> who<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW141181122 BCX0\"> live their journey silently and never get credit they deserve. We get to highlight and celebrate the work that the women around us have done to pave a path for us. We get to inspire and be inspired by women. Having said all that, personally, any support shown to a marginalized cohort in society deserves more than just one day of advocacy. The support needs to be<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW141181122 BCX0\"> alive all throughout the year.<\/span><\/span><span class=\"EOP SCXW141181122 BCX0\" data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:0,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">&nbsp;<\/span> <\/span><\/span><span class=\"EOP SCXW235525485 BCX0\" data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;469777462&quot;:[560,1120,1680,2240,2800,3360,3920,4480,5040,5600,6160,6720],&quot;469777927&quot;:[0,0,0,0,0,0,0,0,0,0,0,0],&quot;469777928&quot;:[1,1,1,1,1,1,1,1,1,1,1,1]}\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"TextRun SCXW135494474 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-AU\" xml:lang=\"EN-AU\" data-contrast=\"auto\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW135494474 BCX0\">In your time at Deakin, what has been your proudest achievement?<\/span><\/span><span class=\"EOP SCXW135494474 BCX0\" data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:0,&quot;335559740&quot;:252}\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span class=\"EOP SCXW104011759 BCX0\" data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;469777462&quot;:[560,1120,1680,2240,2800,3360,3920,4480,5040,5600,6160,6720],&quot;469777927&quot;:[0,0,0,0,0,0,0,0,0,0,0,0],&quot;469777928&quot;:[1,1,1,1,1,1,1,1,1,1,1,1]}\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW37579923 BCX0\">Allowing Queer People of Color to take center <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW37579923 BCX0\">stage;<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW37579923 BCX0\"> especially International Students. <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW37579923 BCX0\">I started involving myself in as many s<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun ContextualSpellingAndGrammarErrorV2Themed GrammarErrorHighlight SCXW37579923 BCX0\">tudent<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW37579923 BCX0\"> centric roles, activities, campaigns, panels, and events so I can listen to and share mine and my demographics\u2019 <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun ContextualSpellingAndGrammarErrorV2Themed SCXW37579923 BCX0\">lived-experiences<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW37579923 BCX0\"> at places that implement change.<\/span> <span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW37579923 BCX0\">As someone who came to Australia seeking a better <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun ContextualSpellingAndGrammarErrorV2Themed SCXW37579923 BCX0\">life<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW37579923 BCX0\"> I know too well how taxing it is to split myself between the roots that bind me to my unaccepting home <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun ContextualSpellingAndGrammarErrorV2Themed SCXW37579923 BCX0\">country, and<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW37579923 BCX0\"> figuring out my sexuality and gender. <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW37579923 BCX0\">I was a false character with family, and a confused <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW37579923 BCX0\">character in reality<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW37579923 BCX0\">.<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW37579923 BCX0\"> I <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW37579923 BCX0\">didn\u2019t<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW37579923 BCX0\"> have anyone to guide me or inspire me to explore and expand my potential. When I noticed gaps in the advocacy for Queer People of Color I decided I was going to make some noise for all of us, let people know we exist and th<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW37579923 BCX0\">at we need to be catered for<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW37579923 BCX0\"> and included in conversations entailing diversity; but also inspire International Queer Students to lower their guard<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW37579923 BCX0\">,<\/span> <span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW37579923 BCX0\">to<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW37579923 BCX0\"> feel <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW37579923 BCX0\">a&nbsp; more<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW37579923 BCX0\"> secure and comfortable in their own skin. <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW37579923 BCX0\">To think <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW37579923 BCX0\">I\u2019ve<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW37579923 BCX0\"> contributed to the progress I now see all around me, for QPOC, at Deakin, still surprises me.&nbsp;<\/span> <\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"TextRun SCXW149355695 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-AU\" xml:lang=\"EN-AU\" data-contrast=\"auto\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW149355695 BCX0\">We know<\/span><\/span> <span class=\"TextRun SCXW149355695 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-AU\" xml:lang=\"EN-AU\" data-contrast=\"auto\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW149355695 BCX0\">discrimination still exists, what are some of the barriers you think that women are facing today that need more attention?&nbsp;<\/span><\/span><span class=\"EOP SCXW149355695 BCX0\" data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:0,&quot;335559740&quot;:252}\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><i><span data-contrast=\"none\">The transition from blatant discrimination to microaggressions<\/span><\/i><span data-contrast=\"none\"> \u2013 Just because you don\u2019t see people actively and directly discriminating doesn\u2019t mean all our problems have vanished. Bigotry can be subtle and hidden in everyday conversations and behavior. We must always question people\u2019s basis. <\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:0,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span data-contrast=\"none\">Lack of Autonomy<\/span><\/i><span data-contrast=\"none\"> \u2013 We are in the year 2023, but there are still people who question the choices that women make for themselves with a certain control that they never exercise on men. People tend to set expectations as to how Transwomen should present or behave so that they can be more &#8216;understandable&#8217; to society, and if we are difficult to comprehend, we lose people\u2019s attention. But you don\u2019t need to understand us to accept us.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"TextRun SCXW127824388 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-AU\" xml:lang=\"EN-AU\" data-contrast=\"auto\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW127824388 BCX0\">How do you feel Deakin supports women?<\/span><\/span><span class=\"EOP SCXW127824388 BCX0\" data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:0,&quot;335559740&quot;:252}\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW175850865 BCX0\">There is a very strong expectation<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW175850865 BCX0\"> for Respect and Belonging within the various communities at Deakin from Student to Staff bodies<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW175850865 BCX0\">.<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW175850865 BCX0\"> I have noticed <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW175850865 BCX0\">a very strong<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW175850865 BCX0\"> trend of people willing to listen and welcome diverse voices, and Deakin continually letting me bring my thoughts to the table and valuing them in conversations means so much to me. Deakin has always given me the chance to take up space and let my voice be heard, and <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW175850865 BCX0\">that\u2019s<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW175850865 BCX0\"> what women need, to be heard, to be acknowledged, to be supported in our <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW175850865 BCX0\">advocacy.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"TextRun SCXW126433729 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-AU\" xml:lang=\"EN-AU\" data-contrast=\"auto\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW126433729 BCX0\">What are some of the ways someone can help drive a gender equal future?&nbsp;<\/span><\/span><span class=\"EOP SCXW126433729 BCX0\" data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:0,&quot;335559740&quot;:252}\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">We can start our advocacy with:&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><span data-contrast=\"none\">Education&nbsp;<\/span><\/b><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:0,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">&nbsp;<br \/>\n<\/span><span data-contrast=\"none\">Learning about the hurdles marginalized groups face. Understanding the differences in privilege. Creating working groups who can share their experiences and thoughts on the way something works. Let\u2019s discuss the double standards and expectations we seem to set for the genders.&nbsp; <\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:0,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><span data-contrast=\"none\">Listening <\/span><\/b>&nbsp;<br \/>\n<span data-contrast=\"none\">You can\u2019t change a system unless you\u2019ve listened to the oppression caused by the system from the oppressed. Listen to what we have to say as an affected demographic. Don\u2019t believe what the unaffected majority have to say about us, listen to what we have to say about us.&nbsp;<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:0,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h5><a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.deakin.edu.au\/article\/iwd2023\">Explore our other International Women\u2019s Day profiles here<\/a><\/h5>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I can&#8217;t believe it took me till this campaign to look back at the journey I&#8217;ve made. All the way back to June 2019 when I escaped the &#8216;mold&#8217; of the environment I was raised in by choosing to pursue higher education abroad, in Australia. 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